How many children of the secret

How many children of the secret 

 Child sexual secret? "Impossible, right? Mention this topic, a lot of people will be skeptical. But in fact, children from two-year-old half of the initiative began. Children's growth along with development, children's sexual development with his development of other acts at the same time. of seeds (sex chromosomes) in the child's body, when germination, when pumping sticks, when flowering, when the results are the laws of nature. understanding of children's of the situation and its development in order to better help their children grow up. 

   2-year-old mother of puzzled: why kids love to watch adults taking a bath? 

   Scenario story: 

   Recently, quite distressed Xiaoping: 2-year-old son, many adults seem to be particularly interested in the body, the home of any person to take a bath, then have cried to see her son. Themselves and their husbands just do not care, but even the son of his uncle, aunt also depends on taking a bath. Xiaoping only the husband's brother over 20 years old, married shortly after his son's request to allow everyone feel really awkward. Beginning, Xiaoping not watch their children, but children always make a stop, so that a person not know what to do Xiaoping. 

   Expert ideas: The solution is: Let the children enjoy watch. 

   In fact, 2-year-old and a half years, is the child for the "sex" the beginning of the initial awareness. But this time the child's curiosity for the human body, but without the purpose of easy to explore, in fact, he was just eager to want to know what people look like. If during this period that the child's needs are not met, the subconscious mind will make him cast a shadow over that person's body is a mystery and shame, and this awareness is not that good. Therefore, parents at this time the most correct approach is to give the child to move a small bench and let him enjoy to watch. In fact, such a child's curiosity will not last long, as long as the curiosity to meet the future you want to watch him do not read him. 

 6-year-old mother of doubt: children will masturbate? 

   Scenario story: 

   Kindergarten nap, the teacher went around 6-year-old Ting-Ting, see Ting-ting lie on your back , and flushing of the face, eyes staring at the ceiling, his legs were tightly folder, when teachers go when moving Her quilt, Tingting immediately stop the action, showing a pair of nervous expression. 

   Ah Ching's son Xiaobei 6 years old this year. Ah Ching is very upset recently, because the total fine Xiaobei enjoy playing its own "mini-biddy" First, put an end to the Arab-Israeli sunny, but is largely ineffective. 

   Expert ideas: 

   Tingting and small north indeed belong to these acts of masturbation. A lot of mother to child touch other items genital or genital friction exist a lot of questions, in fact, this is child sexual development in a normal phenomenon. Children's sex education expert Professor Hu Ping explained that the people of sexual psychology and sexual development is not only the sudden appearance of puberty, but in very small children when started. Whether a boy or a girl, there  touch genital behavior. This interest in primary school children will gradually disappear until after puberty recovery. 

   Professor Hu advising parents, when children touch the genitals, parents can "turn a blind eye" and not to any strengthening of the child behavior, such as laughter, he forced his hand open, scaring him to do as small biddy will get sick and so on If the parents do, children will strengthen him instead of this behavior. Parents least able to do is scold the child, should not be obscene, the word evaluation of crime like child's acts of masturbation, and even scolding the child, this child will bring immense psychological damage. 

   Has masturbation behavior for children, parents should tell him (her) of the act was private behavior, it is necessary to in their own room or to avoid an outside team. All in all, masturbation is a normal growing child behavior, just letting nature take its course. 

   It is necessary to understand the children of such acts, but also pay attention to the transfer of the child's attention. In life give children enough love and attention, and expand the child's spiritual life, cultivating hobbies, put the child's attention to the draw, singing, sports and other meaningful things. 

 The sooner the better sex education 

   A few days ago, the "golden baby" parent-child educational institutions of child sexual health education seminars attracted several hundred take part in Mother Father. Chinese Society of adolescent sexual health education, deputy director of professional committees, children's sex education experts at the talks, said Hu Ping, for parents and their children's sex education is still a stranger and sensitive topic, but studies have shown that sex education for children should be more As early as the better understanding of child growth and psychological development process of a neutral, it is extremely necessary. 

   With the progress of the times, many parents come to realize the importance of sex education for children, but when this kind of education from the start? Experts believe that children's sex education must and can only be run through the process of growing up in a child's point point drop. Because the child's spiritual growth are regular, and timely education of parents is the most successful education. Therefore, the children's sex education for parents on a higher demand, sex education, we must first understand the child from the start. 

   Sex education for young children, in the understanding at the same time, we should also have the exchange. In the interview, reporter learned that, in fact, early childhood period, children may experience a lot of questions about nature, such as the television camera's intimate scenes, small animals mating action, and may even see the parents are unwittingly couples sex life and so on . Generally speaking, for these questions, parents should not hide the attitude of holding a timely answer to give. Let the children know, and will not make children "a drop", on the contrary, the more to hide and suppress, but the easier problems. Parents should also note that the purpose of sex education for children in order to let children know are life, love and respect and learn to cherish their own. From this perspective, it will have a benign effect.