Why married sex life easier "derailment"?

Why married sex life easier "derailment"? 

 - "Family did not flower wild flower" 

     Of extramarital sex life, people often hatred, criticism, lack of tolerance. For example, we control the derailment of a Man of marriage called "goat", "Don Juan"; Tube derailment marriage of a woman called the "loose woman", "beat." As everyone knows, the extramarital sex life is a universal phenomenon through the ages. We should take an objective approach to analysis and to treat them. 

     First of all, have extra-marital sexual life of men and women, often have one thing in common is that they or their sexual experience, sexual experience-rich, they or their pursuit of sexual pleasure, sexual desire Satisfied strongly than the average person, they should not put up with them in Marriage within the same low-energy personality incompetence or sexual life of people相守. Thus, from the extra-marital sexual partners to find the ideal has become the inevitable result, they found them, so that our writers on their works in the description of a large number of extra-marital sex of the artistic image, such as "lounge bridges left Dream "the main character in Robert? Jinkai and Francesca," Paradise Lost "and the Hisaki凌子. It is worth mentioning that more controversial are the "Golden Lotus" in the Qing, Pan and Li Ping'er three figures. One of the Pan, she was married her husband not only looks ugly big-wu, and personality are incompetent, precisely how the women's Pan withstand the dust? Li Ping'er say that her husband is not impotent, but the home placed a beautiful Value wife did not know it, I have to go outside find prositute, Li Ping'er heart can you say balance? Fortunately, they all encountered field conditions veteran master Qing sex to satisfy their psychological and physiological needs. Their needs through the ages is the common needs of all women, you can say their required unreasonable it? Care, we saw no reason not to tolerance they do? 

     Secondly, from the maintenance of marriage and family stability in the perspective of this issue, on extra-marital sex life should also be tolerant. U.S. have already seen, extramarital sex life is a universal phenomenon, then we should be objective and cool-headed approach to analysis of this phenomenon. Why get married have extramarital sex life? Except a very few other than moral hazard, mainly to do nothing more than a few: 

     First, because a variety of objective reasons for marriage and after marriage found both sides in the ideological understanding, cultural knowledge, fun-loving, ability and so on there can not bridge the huge gap between the. This situation exists only in the lack of mutual understanding before marriage between the husband and wife, this is a very small number. 

     Second, because of the marriage are not satisfied with sex life, while the other party was his own ignorance of the feelings of numbness. I believe, this is a very small number. 

     Three are the feelings between husband and wife have always been good, but occasionally not stand the temptation of extramarital sex, I believe that this situation in the extramarital sex life should account for most. Faced with the above three reasons, I think, we can find them or their tolerance reasons. I would also like to say is that happened because of the third reason extramarital sex life, but also should be tolerant. Since the derailment, he or she will feel guilt, as long as you the other side of tolerance, the other side we will redouble our compensation to you. 

     Finally, please remember that you should never: Do not just because the other side occasionally derailed on fight, divorce row! Hasty divorce, you will regret it for life! There is a saying to you: "Wildflower not flower long home."